This week I dragged my boyfriend to Waddesdon Manor, a beautiful 1870s country house near to Aylesbury. To be honest, I say I dragged my boyfriend, but he was actually very happy to go! 

The reason I wanted to go is because the manor (and it’s grounds) has so much on at Christmas and I visited years and years ago with my nan and parents, having an amazing time. I’d always wanted to go back – and we always tried to – but it just didn’t happen. So as part as my birthday present, my boyfriend agreed to take me on a day that the Christmas fair was on.
We also booked tickets to go inside the house and see the decorations as on my last visit, my family and I only visited the grounds.
After just an hours drive, we arrived near to the house where we were welcomed with two tall beautiful Christmas trees. We were actually nowhere near the house but already I felt festive! We drove down through the gates and to the car park, where we hopped onto a shuttle bus that took us down to the house.

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Though the walk itself is only twenty minutes or so long, it was very chilly so we decided to take the lazy option! As soon as we stepped off the bus I was blown away to see the magnificent house in front of us. Pretty Christmas lights twinkled in the trees surrounding the house and down each side of the long lawn, pop up cabins/chalets hosted the Christmas market.
We got stuck in, admiring the decorations from each cabin and the delicate string lights criss-crossing from cabin to lampost, emitting a romantic glow as we walked beneath. The first cabin we visited was a foodie one and even had a vegan burger on offer – perfect! Vincent scoffed his in no time (it was too spicy for me!) and we began a slow walk to check out what was on offer. Though we saw lots of great things, we actually forgot to buy any gifts and just bought some chilli sauces for ourselves!

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After a mooch around the market, we explored the grounds. The stables looked particularly festive – and the walk from the house to the stables was nice. It was a winding path through trees but lit up with small lantern lights. We spent half an hour in the playground too – there were some fun things to do as adults! – and generally just spent the rest of the time gazing at the festive decorations.
When it was almost time for our timed entry into the house, we walked up and realized there was an outdoor light show. With floodlights changing the colours of the trees and sound effects, we were treated to a short but sweet show held against the backdrop of the house. We saw colourful butterflies fly over the walls outside and even snow! It was really beautiful.

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Inside the house was even more festive. Even though we only saw a handful of rooms, each had a different theme and the trees were out of this world. I got so many ideas for our tree (when we eventually get one!) and loved walking through the old walls and delving into the houses past.

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My only qualm is that we didn’t get to see much of the house at all. Obviously not every room is decorated for Christmas, but as we spent £30 for the both of us to visit the house, I was quite surprised to find we were in and out within only twenty minutes. Still, I was glad we got to see inside and the trees really were beautiful!
We also had issues finding somewhere to eat, though this is through no fault of Waddesdon. There was lots of food on offer, but this was mostly pop-ups or cafes which of course served nothing vegan. We should have booked in advance to eat in the restaurant really but didn’t think that far ahead.
Saying that, I was pleasantly surprised to find even a vegan burger on offer at the market, it’s just a shame that it was too spicy for me! We found solace in the raclette cabin which offered cheesy chips and gravy – we ordered it without the cheese to make a delicious but light vegan snack.
All in all it was a really lovely and festive day. Waddesdon Manor is still one of the most beautiful places I’ve ever visited and there really is nothing like it come Christmas. From the Christmas market to Waddesdon Imaginarium (the light show projected onto the house), there really is so much to see and do this winter, proving that it’s worth risking the cold to make a visit.
Have you ever been to Waddesdon Manor? Let me know!
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Firstly, massive apologies that this post didn’t go live yesterday. First of all, my blog was down for some unknown reason (I left it to GoDaddy to fix it entirely and it was fine again this morning; yay!). Second of all, I totally didn’t even realize it was the 1st. I mean can you even accept the fact that it is now the FIRST OF DECEMBER. IT IS THE MONTH OF CHRISTMAS. WE ARE LIKE ONE MONTH AWAY FROM 2018/NEXT YEAR.
I can’t believe it. But I do know I’m in full on Christmas mode and have been gearing up for this for a while now. It’s finally acceptable to be excited for Christmas now though.
Here’s what I’m looking forward to this month.
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I love dystopia/survival books, so Year One (Chronicles of The One #1) sounds right up my street. The premise is based around a sickness wiping out the world and a small group of people trying to survive after the end. But where science and technology failed, magic has risen instead; both good and bad. Lana and Max begin an adventure to survive and the book tells the story of the other survivors they meet along the way.
Year One will be released on the 5th December.
Star Wars: The Last Jedi is finally coming to our screens. We’ve all purposely avoided all trailers as we’re all going to go see it at the IMAX in the new year, but everyone knows it follows on from the last movie when Rey finds Luke. It was the last movie that really made me a fan of Star Wars, so I’ve no doubt this one is going to blow me away also.
Star Wars: The Last Jedi will be released on the 15th December.
Seasonal days a plenty! On Wednesday, I’m dragging my boyfriend along to Waddesdon Manor to see their Christmas fair again and to finally see inside the house. Saturday is my work’s Christmas do and the following week I’m starting early birthday celebrations. My boyfriend has a super fun surprise planned for me which I’m so excited about but it’s been so tough avoiding reading all about what’s going on in London this month in fear of ruining the surprise. Next Saturday my sister and I are heading into London for my annual birthday celebrations and we’re going to The Vaults for their Dance Before Christmas. Not quite sure what it entails but it’s clearly gonna be really fun and unique based on the venue; so I better get a new dress! All these events will be covered on the blog, so keep an eye out.
New Netflix drama, Dark, is here to satisfy your Stranger Things shaped hole. In my eyes, it’s Stranger Things meets The Returned, only much darker than the latter. It’s a supernatural thriller based around a two missing children in a small German town. It won’t be an easy one to watch – and has subtitles – but it’s also going to be very addictive. 
Dark is available from the 1st December.
In all honesty, the closer we get to Christmas, the quieter it’s going to get around here. Not only am I working in retail again this Christmas (long hours), but I’m also planning a move from Blogger to WordPress for the new year, as well as some other blog changes. It’ll involve a lot of research and planning ahead so although I’ll be trying my best to blog as normal, plz don’t hate me if I go completely stone cold quiet for weeks on end 😉


I’ve always wanted to travel and earlier this year, during my first time travelling in Mexico, I knew that that trip wouldn’t be the last one. I fell in love with discovering new cultures, exploring thousands of years of history and travelling different landscapes, from sandy white beaches to plush green jungles. 

During my trip, I travelled with a backpack I’d hastily ordered from Amazon just a week before. I wasn’t sure what type of luggage to go with and although I loved my backpack, I do wish I’d picked something more ideal for travel. It was a good size for my day-to-day activities – as I also brought a suitcase – but wouldn’t have cut it for long term travel. One of the straps also broke within the last few days of my trip too.
So I was delighted when CabinZero got in touch recently and asked me if I’d like to try out one of their specialized travel bags (how ideal would this opportunity have been back in April!). I had a look at the brand before choosing my bag and was overwhelmed with how ideal this company is when it comes to what they’re selling.

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CabinZero are actually avid fans of travelling – just one look at their blog will tell you that. Posts range from their favourite travel instagrammers to guest blogs about America’s best cities for fall travel. Basically, they know exactly what they’re talking about and what exactly a travel bag or backpack needs.
I picked the Classic CabinZero which is ideal for zero-hassle travel – perfect for a new traveller like me! I ordered it in Lipe Blue and the website states that backpack’s colour is inspired by the sea’s reflection of the last rays of a stunning Thai sunset – how inspiring is that?
My first impression of the bag is that the colour is beautiful. It’s bright and eye catching, meaning there’s little chance of it getting lost, but the colour is also slightly subtle too. It’s not too bright or in your face and I think it’ll go with anything.

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The bag is super spacious inside with smaller zipped compartments for things like toiletries and important documents, and another large elasticated section which fits my laptop nicely. On the front of the bag there’s also a zipped area which works for bits that need to be accessed quickly.

It’s also very sturdy and a good size. It’s more square than anything, which works really well, and as well as a zip to get inside, there’s also four clips you can use to be extra safe if you so choose. My favourite part, however, is that there’s also a handle down the left side of the bag. This means you can wear it as a backpack as normal, or you can carry it as you would a briefcase.

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This is such a genius idea and one I haven’t seen before. I’m used to backpacks with one small handle at the top and I always worry the handle will break with how much I’ve overpacked. So with a larger and more sturdy handle on the side, it also means when you pick it up you’re lifting where most of the weight is, rather than the empty area/gap at the top of your luggage/items if you haven’t packed to the brim.
I have yet to ‘travel’ with this bag (but keep an eye out as we’re heading back to Romania after Christmas!), but so far, I use it when travelling between my boyfriend’s flat and home. Normally I shove all my stuff into my day to day bag (which I take to work with me), which means it’s heavy and weighs me down, or just in a plastic bag with my laptop in its separate bag.

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Lately, I’ve been able to keep everything in CabinZero’s classic travel bag and it’s perfect for that use. Of course it will obviously be perfect for travel – weekend, week or longer – but for the meantime, I’ve been getting plenty of use out of it.
Additionally, the bag is water resistant, designed to be the perfect cabin size, has a ten year warranty and has a lost and found tag built in – how nifty is that?!
Overall, I don’t think I would pick anything else for a travel bag now. It’s light but durable, it has all the compartments you need, it’s got extra safety additions and it’s really bloody stylish too.

What do you think? Would you benefit from a CabinZero Classic Travel Bag on your adventures? Let me know!

P.S Interested in purchasing your own CabinZero bag? You can use promo code CZLOUISEJOY for 10% off your entire order until 7th Jan!

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As you know, I always like to have my fingers in a lot of different pies (as dodge as that sounds!).

That’s probably why I’m always so tired! As well as working full time and blogging, I also like to take on extra stuff whether it’s for fun, for exposure or just to try something interesting.

Therefore I thought it would be nice to give you all and update on what other projects I’ve been up to lately.
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So in the summer I began working full time again, at H&M (again), but this time in St Albans. In my short time there I’ve been told I’ve made a good impression so far and although it’s not ‘official’ so to speak, I am responsible for the accessories in the store. It started out with all ladies accessories – scarfs, shoes, hair bands – most cute stuff really. After Christmas, I’ll hopefully be responsible for all accessories in store. At the moment, I mostly do delivery shifts (which means early mornings but early finishes too) where I help process delivery, however my main priority is processing the accessories. This sees me unpacking them, often checking if they are on offer or on delivery and taking them down to the shop floor and finding a place for them. It might sound easy but it’s not really when you take into account how many accessories go on the shop floor with so little space. Often I have to move things around, put up and take down shelves, fill up the A area etc. It may not seem like a lot but it’s really nice being responsible for my own (often stressful!) area in the store. I’m hoping to eventually become an official extra responsible (which means I’ll officially be in charge of accessories but will also be a senior member of staff to some others), and then, in the long run, either department manager, a visual merchandiser or something press related. 
I’ve recently began to contribute to the sleek but really modern website/publication, The Growing Up Guide. The website focuses on some great stuff – namely serious issues and things people want to really read about and acts like some sort of online guide to young women. But of course it’s helpful for people like me and you too, as who can honestly say they have their shit together?! You can read some of my contributed posts here if you want to and I’ll also be doing an Instagram takeover on their account on the 16th December. I’ll be attending a quirky party in London that evening (part of my birthday plans) so make sure you check it out!
I’m a huge fan of 80s movies and I’ve recently really been getting into podcasts, so I found it really fun appearing on Rich’s podcast recently – a homage to all the best movies from the 1980s (ish). We chatted about the epic Tim Burton classic that is Beetlejuice, and in the upcoming weeks I’ll be appearing again to chat about another amazing 80s movie, Lost Boys. Give it a listen if you’re so inclined, but I apologize for the way my voice sounds. I sound like a boy. I know.
I’ve also begun contributing to M.O.S.H, which is part of the Hit The Floor network! It’s very early days yet but I have a couple of reviews submitted and I also like the range of feature ideas on here too. I think the key with music journalism is to just write as often as you can for as many eyes as you can. I still struggle a bit with writing reviews and using the proper technical terms for things, but I’m getting better.
Okay, lets face it, I’m no business woman. But I have had a somewhat unique fun idea which I’ll be exploring more in the run up to Christmas and hopefully sharing in the new year. So keep your eyes peeled – especially if you like music and, er, cross stitch…
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Back in October, I was lucky enough to receive my own desk from Kit Out My Office and it’s still one of my favourite blogging perks ever!

Having my own space and desk to blog at is such a great thing, I really appreciate having somewhere to call just mine at my boyfriend’s place so I’ve been over the moon with this desk.

However, when the desk arrived, I obviously wanted to get a review post up as soon as possible so back then, the desk wasn’t as personalized (or looking as pretty!) as it is now. Therefore I thought I’d do an update post (as I said I might) to show you all what it looks like now and to also talk about how it’s held up.

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So because my boyfriend lives in a shared flat with some of his colleagues, we (well he) was moved to the smaller room recently, which has actually turned out to be a good thing. We’ve moved some furniture around to make more space, and I have the perfect little corner for my desk – plus a wall!

I have yet to get something sturdy enough to attach my board to the wall so for the meantime, this cute little wire board from Primark just leans against the back wall. I only have on it one postcard from Paperchase so far, and I have left the others that came with it as they’re cute. This will be updated with inspiring prints and photos soon, hopefully.

Above that and to the left is a hanging bag set I got from Wish, which we both use just to store small bits and bobs like my hairbands, his vape stuff etc. Next to that is a sticker I stole from him, ha.

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On the desk, I still have my week planner and my magazine holder, which is now filled with recipes, magazines, notebooks etc. I’ve added a fake succulent plant (also from Primark and just until I can trust myself to keep a real one alive), another cute (currently unopened) candle from Vinegar Hill and a jar full of gold paperclips from Wilkinson’s. I don’t use them, they just look stylish.

I picked up this colourful pencil case from TK Maxx and I finally have a chair! It’s just one from the kitchen that will make do for now but I’ll get my own chair likely when we move into a new place. I’m on the lookout for a nice stylish cushion for it – perhaps a seasonal one.

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The desk has held up exceptionally well – proving that despite being my first bit of DIY, I did do it properly and it didn’t just collapse a few weeks in. We moved the drawer across a little in the end to give me a little more space when I have my legs crossed and my only qualm is that when the cat comes in and walks all over it to get to the windowsill, he always leaves lots of hair so I’m often having to wipe it down, ha!

Overall though, I’m still really pleased with it. It actually gives the whole room a more stylish but homely feel to it and being that it’s such a small room that doesn’t even belong to me, it’s really nice having my own space and a desk of my own.