In case you haven’t already heard, my boyfriend and I are planning to move in together. It’s early days yet as we still need to save and find somewhere, but the hunt is on and boy am I excited.
I’ve only ever lived with a boyfriend once in my life and I’m not sure that entirely counts because a) it was actually into a shared house where we still had our own rooms/space if we needed to, b) we lived with creepy housemates and c) we only moved in together out of convenience.
Well I’m nearing 30 now, half my purchases go on homeware as opposed to clothes and, well, my boyfriend and I only drive each other slightly mad when we spend tons of time together. He gets annoyed when I don’t wash the dishes properly (apparently I leave them to dry when there’s still washing up liquid on them) and I get annoyed when he leaves crumbs in the bed or wet towels on the bed.
All normal arguments, am I right?
Anyway. There’s so much that I’m looking forward to so I thought it would be nice to do a blog post about it.
Yes, I’m sorry to bring that dreaded word up so soon and even though at this rate we wont be living together until the new year, I’m still super excited for our first Christmas together/first Christmas in our new place, especially for things like decorating the tree (that will never be as good as my mum’s!), Christmas feasts and movie binges. Oh, and a vegan Christmas dinner of course.
COOKING IN WHATEVER I WANT
My boyfriend said I’m not allowed to cook naked because I am the world’s most clumsy person, but now that we don’t live alone, I hate the fact that I can’t roll out of bed looking rough as f*ck and stumble into the kitchen to make breakfast. I mean I still wear lazy clothes and that, but I always wear a bra to avoid getting caught out by his flatmates.
BUYING ADULT STUFF
To be fair, I’ve already bought a laundry basket, a mirror, storage bags and a laundry basket for his room (and next I have my eye on a rug) but shopping for home stuff is JUST SO FUN. I now realize why I love The Sims so much. I can actually play it like IN REAL LIFE by decorating my own damn place. Unfortunately I don’t think my boyfriend will agree with my luxurious gothic bathroom with black walls idea, but I’m sure we can compromise.
Okay we have a shower over a bathtub here and I have a bath at home so I swear I do wash, but I can’t wait to have somewhere with a proper bath (as in without a shower over it). I’m going to stock up on so many Lush products and really nice candles and sh*t.
MY OWN BLOGGING SPACE
I actually finally have my own blogging space here, but currently at my desk I have the beautiful view of a curtain or, er, ASDA. To be able to push my desk against a wall and cover it in inspiring prints is THE DREAM. But I do totally love my current blogging space too.
Harry Potter, Lord of the Rings, Indiana Jones…the list is endless. In fact we’re already planning to throw our first binge-party this Halloween with a Stranger Things viewing party. It’s not quite the same in his small room with limited seating, but we’ll manage. Then when we have our own place, we can go all out with themed food and decorations and such.
And speaking of parties…
A HOUSEWARMING PARTY
I have not had a house party in YEARS. I feel far too old to be bothered with putting on heels and going on a night out but good drink, good music and better company in the comfort of my own home sounds AMAZING. And since my boyfriend is a bartender, we’re totally going to get one of those cool drink trolleys that you always see on Pinterest.
My boyfriend taught me how to make this amazing Sandwich Of Justice
and call me the total opposite of a feminist but I can’t wait to make it (with or without his help) for all our friends on a hungover morning. Seriously. This is one of the reasons I love my boyfriend. At the discovery of this sandwich all I could see was our future together and living together, having friends crash over after a night out (or in! See previous point…) and making hangover food like the SOJ for everyone the morning after. Is that weird? I don’t care…
HAVING A HOMEBASE
Yes, I spend more time here than at my own home right now, but for those days in between, it is an absolute b*tch dragging a big bag full of makeup and my laptop on and off the bus/to work. I’ll have another car soon so that will make it a bit easier, but it can still get ever so confusing living between two places. I still don’t know where my fitbit charger/favourite bra is currently. Who knows if I’ll ever find out…
LIVING WITH MY BOYFRIEND
Finally, the reason why I’m most excited is just that I’ll get to live with the person I love. I get to go to sleep next to him every night (apart from when he chooses to be a geek and stay up gaming, haha) and wake up with him every morning. I get to have breakfast with him (when I eat breakfast) and dinner every night. We get to choose a flat and make it a home together and create a future together. And as soppy as it makes me, that’s the best part of it all.
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